New year, new you???
So as we have now moved into 2023 lots of people are trying the new year, new me thing. For the past week social media has been absolutely full of new me posts and I feel they will continue for the next few weeks.
Personally I really can't stand these posts on social media. They give the perception that there is something wrong with who you are. There is nothing wrong with who you are. Let me repeat that "there is nothing wrong with who you are".
If you want to adapt something or develop an area of your life that doesn't need a new you, it needs you with an open heart and open mind. It needs you to look inside, sometimes deep inside to find where you need/ want to develop. And yes I mean develop not change. Everything you can ever be is already within you in it's rawest most simplified form. It is sat there waiting for you to grasp, to mold and to develop.
When you are looking outside of you for your new self, for your next adventure then you are setting yourself up for failure.
Go within to find who you are. Go within to find your next adventure. Go within to find what makes you sparkle.
You can do this.
If you need help with it you know where I am. I can ask questions and help you uncover those bits that are deeply wrapped up and hidden. Those bits waiting to be dusted off for you to really shine and sparkle.
Please don't feel the pressure to change who you are for the new year but be open to growing and developing yourself and your life always.